Liza’s List – Valentines Day Gift Guide (for Grownups!)

Liza’s List – Valentines Day Gift Guide (for Grownups!)

Valentine’s Day is all about spreading love—and as a community of parents, we absolutely deserve it! Whether it’s a thoughtful gift for your partner, a treat for a friend, or something special for yourself, we’ve got you covered. From sweet surprises to unique finds, our gift guide is here to spark inspiration for meaningful gifts that show just how much you care. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day extra special with our Valentines Day Gift Guide, offering gifts that go beyond the usual!

Neon, But Make It Iconic

NGL, I was rocking these handmade neon sets before Carrie Bradshaw did—snagged mine at Le Petit Coquette on University Place back in the day (respect to Rebecca & Deborah!). There’s nothing sexier than these custom day-glow lingerie sets—perfect under a sheer shirt, peeking out just enough to turn heads, or, you know… in the bedroom (wink).

Order your set or drop a not-so-subtle hint at deborahmarquit.com. 💡🔥 Available in 6 glowriffic colors xo

The Betty Bag by Justin Gregory

Classic style, reimagined for today. The Betty Handbag’s sleek two-tone design brings together sophistication and contemporary flair, making it the perfect accessory for any occasion—whether you’re brunching, heading out for a night on the town, or everything in between.

Made in Italy, Crafted from smooth, premium calfskin leather, this bag exudes luxury in every detail. Its versatility shines, offering the option to wear it as a top handle, crossbody, or shoulder bag—perfect for whatever your day demands. Expandable sides and a fold-over top provide extra flexibility, while gold-tone hardware adds a touch of elegance. Inside, the spacious main compartment keeps your essentials organized in style.Red not your thing? Don’t worry, Betty is available in a large array of colors from bright to neutrals.

Isn’t she a total Betty? —Unless you’re Clueless…  Get ready to make your accessory collection pop. Shop Betty Now.

TOCCA Candela Classica Feu de Touch: The Perfect Valentine’s Day Gift with a Timeless Gardenia Scent

If you’re looking for a candle that fills your space with love and elegance, the TOCCA Candela Classica Feu de Touch is a must-have. With its signature gardenia scent, this timeless classic invites warmth and a touch of romance into any room. The luxurious soy-wax blend, paired with a 100% cotton wick, ensures a clean and long-lasting burn—up to 60 hours! Plus, it’s vegan, gluten-free, and cruelty-free, so you can feel good about your purchase. Housed in a beautiful modern blue glass jar, it’s not just a candle, but a keepsake. Find it on TOCCA.com 

Ada & Edith Brooklyn Pant Set – The Perfect Valentine’s Day Gift

Could the Brooklyn set be the cutest pant set in the world? I’m gonna say yes. I’ve already taken her out for drinks and even to a client lunch—she’s that effortlessly chic. With an oversized cropped top and high-waisted, wide-leg pants in the coziest knit imaginable, she’s the ultimate lounge, travel, work, and party set all in one. The perfect little exclamation point. Dress her down with sneakers or up with heels and statement jewelry—she’s ready for anything.

Shop Ada & Edith

LUXE Pickleball – Elevate Your Game in Style

This Valentine’s Day, gift your sweetie (or yourself!) a stylish, high-performance pickleball set from LUXE Pickleball. Founded by sibling duo Kiana and Colby, LUXE blends top-tier materials with sleek, modern design to create paddles that don’t just play well—they make a statement. Customize a “his & hers” set, pick from their chic color ball selection (hello, pink pearlescent !), and top it off with a cute “Meet Me on the Court” hat. Because when you play with LUXE, you play better. Shop Luxe Pickleball

Lioness – The Smart Vibrator That Knows You Best

Created by a woman for women, Lioness is the world’s first and only smart vibrator designed to give you real orgasm data—because understanding your pleasure is just as important as experiencing it. With long-distance remote control capability, you and your partner can stay connected, no matter where life takes you.

Backed by doctors and sex researchers, Lioness helps you discover what enhances, changes, or even surprises you about your pleasure. Named one of Popular Science’s 100 Greatest Innovations and called “the most useful and pleasurable toy ever used” by Hello Giggles, it’s not just a toy—it’s a revolution in intimacy.

This Valentine’s Day, give the gift of pleasure and discovery—because nothing says I love you like helping yourself (or your partner) feel amazing.

Shop Lioness here

For the Mom Who Deserves More Than a Card and Grocery Store Flowers

Hard-working moms do everything for everyone else—it’s about time they got a moment to breathe, unwind, and feel the love for themselves. TribeTokes, a women-led, flower-powered clean cannabis brand, understands the mom hustle and has crafted a collection of CBD and THC wellness products designed to bring calm and balance, even on the busiest days.

Their gummies and tinctures are the perfect way to upgrade her self-care routine. Made with all-natural, plant-based ingredients—no artificial fillers or flavors—they help melt away stress, enhance relaxation, and create that ahh moment we all need. Whether it’s a quiet pause after bedtime or a way to start the day with a little extra calm, TribeTokes makes it easy to find balance.

This Valentine’s Day, skip the predictable gifts. Give her something that lasts—support for better sleep, less stress, and a little more her time. Because moms deserve more than chocolates; they deserve a break.

Tribetokes

For the One Who Loves a Little Edge with Their Sweetness

Roses are red, violets are blue, but this heart-shaped lollipop bag? She’s got attitude. With a semi-transparent exterior, a removable chain strap, and just the right amount of cool girl energy, this crossbody is the perfect mix of sweet and bold. Whether you’re dressing up for date night or adding a little flair to your everyday look, this bag makes a statement without even trying.

Because who says Valentine’s Day can’t have a little bite?

$69.90 – Zara

A Few of My My Current Fragrance Obsessions 

Right now, I’m absolutely loving YSL Black Opium. It’s that perfect balance of bold and sweet, with just enough edge to make a statement. For the men in your life (or anyone who loves a sophisticated scent), Valentino Uomo is my go-to. It’s fresh, warm, and oh-so-smooth—definitely a scent that lingers in the best way.

And let’s talk about this Elemis body oil. You heat it up in a cup of warm water before applying, and trust me, it’s everything. The solid oil melts into a silky smooth texture, and the warm application feels like a personal spa moment. Whether you’re doing it yourself or having your partner give you a much-needed massage, it’s the perfect way to relax and indulge.

Treat yourself or drop some hints—it’s self-care season! All available at fragrance.net

Please Don’t Say You’re Sorry by Nicole Sodoma – For moms navigating the challenges of divorce, separation, or co-parenting, Please Don’t Say You’re Sorry by Nicole Sodoma is the perfect Valentine’s Day read. Written by a divorce attorney, mom, co-parent, and stepparent, this deeply personal book offers a blend of heartfelt stories and practical advice. It’s like having a warm, understanding chat with a friend who truly gets it.

With an empowering message of self-love and resilience, this book reminds moms that even in the toughest moments, they are strong, supported, and deserving of love—especially from themselves. It’s a thoughtful gift that will help them prioritize self-care and navigate life’s transitions with grace. Give the gift of strength, compassion, and healing this Valentine’s Day!

Shop the Book & Workbook Here

As we wrap up this valentines day gift guide, I hope you’ve found something special for the ones you love. Or a little treat for yourself,, there’s no better time than now to show your(self!) appreciation.  Explore more personalized recommendations at In Your CircleTM and start creating meaningful connections today.